There are those that will do everything in their power to drain you of all that you are. They will take your magical energies, your happiness, your life force, and your money.
I would love to tell you that these people are always easy to detect; but that is not always the case. Many are very good at what they do. They have trained themselves in the arts of deception and betrayal because it is their way of surviving. They are no different than the blood sucking creatures that spread diseases and annoyances in nature. But these are people, and they desire to drain you.
A few signs are usually present. But these are never full proof:
1. Their obsession with their constant attempt to try to win your favor so they can use your attention and trust against you at a latter time. Schopenhauer may have been correct when he said, " Don't tell your best friend what you would not tell to your worst enemy" in dealing with these loosers. Job sites are the worst for this, especially if you have any level of authority or you're more pronounced in your craft than they.
2. You can feel what they want. You can usually place a field around yourself, or them, so that you can keep yourself protected from these leeches. It isn't foolproof. It is like a condom, it is much better than going without protection, but you're still 20% at risk. Think of it as a dust mask from when fly risks were at all time highs.
3. These are rarely the kind with enough guts to confront you face to face, or directly confront you in anyway. They think it makes them better people, when you ask them. But really, they are just too scared of you, and who you are, to face you. Body size has nothing to do with this psychology. You'll actually find large people are the most scared of a full frontal charge against you. Some of them will be so extreme that they will covertly use the legal system to crush you for being who you are, and being (or having) what they desire... This can be the hardest to know about till it is too late for you to do much but ride out the storm they have created.
DO NOT LET THEM HAVE WHAT YOU HAVE WORKED SO HARD FOR!!
I would love to tell you that these people are always easy to detect; but that is not always the case. Many are very good at what they do. They have trained themselves in the arts of deception and betrayal because it is their way of surviving. They are no different than the blood sucking creatures that spread diseases and annoyances in nature. But these are people, and they desire to drain you.
A few signs are usually present. But these are never full proof:
1. Their obsession with their constant attempt to try to win your favor so they can use your attention and trust against you at a latter time. Schopenhauer may have been correct when he said, " Don't tell your best friend what you would not tell to your worst enemy" in dealing with these loosers. Job sites are the worst for this, especially if you have any level of authority or you're more pronounced in your craft than they.
2. You can feel what they want. You can usually place a field around yourself, or them, so that you can keep yourself protected from these leeches. It isn't foolproof. It is like a condom, it is much better than going without protection, but you're still 20% at risk. Think of it as a dust mask from when fly risks were at all time highs.
3. These are rarely the kind with enough guts to confront you face to face, or directly confront you in anyway. They think it makes them better people, when you ask them. But really, they are just too scared of you, and who you are, to face you. Body size has nothing to do with this psychology. You'll actually find large people are the most scared of a full frontal charge against you. Some of them will be so extreme that they will covertly use the legal system to crush you for being who you are, and being (or having) what they desire... This can be the hardest to know about till it is too late for you to do much but ride out the storm they have created.
